Child Safety During the Holiday Season
Many spend all year counting down the days until the holidays- a season known for getting a chance to take a step back from daily routines to celebrate and relax at home with loved ones. Unfortunately though, this time of year is not celebratory for everyone.
Not every child is safe at home.
In addition to the stress the holiday season can cause for some families, the increased amount of time children are spending at home during this time of year can also increase their risk of experiencing abuse. This may cause a child who is in danger to be left unnoticed and with limited resources to reach out to for help.
While it may be challenging to know what is going on in a child’s household, especially under the restrictions of the current Covid-19 pandemic, we all share a responsibility to look out for the most vulnerable members of our communities.
When trying to recognize the potential signs of abuse from a distance, here are some helpful tips to be mindful of.
When checking in with a child, signs like the ones below may signal the presence of abuse:
Reach out to those that were on your radar before, make phone calls or connect through video chat. Inability to connect with a child (without reason) may be cause for concern.
When talking to them on the phone or through video, watch for indicators of Domestic Violence; aggression, shouting, loud noises in the background of items being thrown and broken.
If connected on social media, notice if they are sending/posting concerning messages; writing about negative experiences.
Notice changes in mental health; shows anxiety, depression fear, suicidal ideation, withdrawn.
When checking in with the parent/caregivers, be aware of warning signs that may indicate they are at risk of maltreating their child and may need support:
Shows little concern for their child
Sees child as completely bad, worthless, or a burden
Appears indifferent or uninterested toward the child
Seems unconcerned or depressed
Behaves unreasonably or in a bizarre manner
Abusing drugs or alcohol
Frequently blames, belittles, or berates child
It takes a herd to keep children and youth safe from abuse. If you are concerned or suspect a child could be unsafe, do not hesitate to report it. It could save them from continuing to suffer in silence.
Reporting resources:
Your local police or RCMP detachment.
Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-387-5437 (KIDS)
Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 or Text CONNECT to 686868
Crime Stoppers: 1-800-222-8477
Sources:
https://www.tedbakerlaw.com/child-abuse-neglect-holidays/